Winter’s Lament

I keep on mentioning this, but it’s finally time. I finally have a moment to introduce you to my unfinished darling. Winter Queen, by Mirabilia.

This is one of the designs that started it all for me, really. In early 1998 I purchased Garden Verses and Winter Queen. I believe Garden Verses came first. This was back in the days when Lincraft stocked a better range of cross stitch supplies. Had they never stocked Mirabilia, I may never have caught the bug, because Home-Sweet-Home stuff just doesn’t appeal to me (though my taste has since evolved to include an eclectic range).

I started Garden Verses first, but if you remember, that start was doomed. Not long after that, I discovered to my delight… an LNS! I seem to have outgrown that same store now; most of my stash arrives by mail. But back then, it was a magical haven of all things new and glorious. I discovered linen came by the metre, not just in pre-cut pieces wrapped in plastic. After the Garden Verses debacle, that was a huge relief. I purchased some fabric, floss, and beads, took my bounty home, attached the fabric to Mum’s old tapestry frame, and started with enthusiasm.

Everything went swimmingly from the crown down to the waist. When I hit the endless blues and whites of the gown, I stalled. A lot. Over the years between then and now, WQ has re-emerged a number of times, been worked on some more, and then banished to the cupboard once again.

When I really became assimilated into the world of stitching – late 2001, early 2002, I decided that I really should finish WQ before getting crazy with too many other projects (ha!). I pulled her out again and did a lot more on that gown. Then I realised she had bigger issues, and that I didn’t really know what I would do with her if I did finish her. Let me explain:

Fabric colour
Why, oh why did I choose cream linen for this beautiful design that needs white. Or antique white, at the very most. Cream! This is far and away the worst problem, I just don’t like her on this fabric.
Dye lot differences
Hmmm. I have since learned my lesson – buy all the floss needed for a design at the same time. The dyelot differences in the a few of the floss colours are seriously noticeable. For me to be happy, I’d have to unpick a lot of stitching and restitch with one dyelot. Just quietly… that’s not going to happen!
Dirt
Yep, and lots of it. Poor stitching practices (holding onto the scroll bar where the fabric was attached) plus poor storage over a long time, have caused the cream fabric to become really dirty, not to mention a lot of the white stitches now look cream as well. Yes, I know about Orvus. Trust me, I’ve tried everything on this baby. Orvus, Napisan, Woolwash (yes, I know I shouldn’t). Even… {shock, horror}… the washing machine. Yep, I threw her in our front loader, beads and all. ‘Twas for nought though, she’s still just as dirty. The white areas could be frogged and restitched… but see above for how I feel about that. And as far as the fabric goes, well I don’t think it could be fixed at all. Possibly it could be hidden by a close mat if it were ever framed.

So. That’s what’s wrong with WQ. If you’ve made it this far, you deserve a prize. That’s her. I know, she looks not so bad in that pic. Trust me, all those problems look worse in real life.

She weighs on my mind a lot. For a good long time, I felt that if I didn’t finish her, I wasn’t a real stitcher. I finished a lot of small stuff, but nothing big, until Celtic Christmas, and more recently, Waiting For Ships. Finishing those two, and particularly WFS, has eased my mind a little. The other reason I think about her a lot is that I do still really like the design. But restitching the whole thing does not thrill me one bit, given how far I got. So if I turf her, it is very likely she won’t ever hang in my home. But if I don’t turf her, she’ll still never hang in my home. So you see my dilemma!

SBQ Catchup Part 2

Here’s the remaining two SBQs to bring me up to date:

Have you ever stitched something as a gift and later realized that receiver doesnโ€™t respect your stitched gift a bit (for example itโ€™s never on show, or you have other reason to suspect that it may even be nonexistent or at least placed in some dark storage room corner)? If so, what have you done? If youโ€™ve been lucky enough to avoid such people what would you do if itโ€™d happen to you?

I have been very selective in my choice of giftee. Other than immediate family (and then only those who I know would appreciate the value of a stitched gift), only a few friends who are also stitchers have received a stitched gift from me. None of the gifts have ended up in dusty corners or been otherwise ill-respected. I have a few more people to stitch for, but mostly I’m happy to stitch for myself. I wouldn’t want something I spend so much time on to be thrust away disdainfully, that’s for sure. I think if that happened, I’d secretly kidnap the piece back!

And finally:

If you have stitched for a while, can you usually pick out the DMC colors you need from memory when you go to your LNS? (For example, you know that 610 is a brown.)

Well, white, ecru, 310 and B2500 are not a problem, of course. And I would know 3041 and 3042 if I chanced upon them in a dark alley! I could probably identify a handful of other colours commonly used by Teresa Wentzler as well. But if I had a shopping list and left it home, I would be bound to forget what was on it. I have a spunky new PDA now though, so I’ll never be leaving my shopping lists behind again!

SBQ Catchup Part 1

Hoo boy… I am a little bit behind on these questions. Here goes:

How do you โ€˜non-hoopistsโ€™ who use a rotation system handle it (as it seems to be lot easier if you are in good terms with hoop)? Do you have several scroll frames? Do you use Q-snaps or maybe something completely different? Or do you just have one or two big projects and others are small enough to be kept in hand while stitching?

I am a very happy Q-snapper. I have all the sizes (and two sets of 11-inch, which I like the best), and they do the trick very nicely, when rapid changeover is required. I will never ever use hoops again, as I am not dedicated enough to remove stitching from the hoop regularly, and I have a few small pieces with irremovable hoop-marks on them.

I only stitch in-hand for very small pieces like ornaments, can’t seem to handle anything more than that.

Oh, and a confession – I also have multiple scroll frames! Before I discovered Q-snaps I tried to find a scroll frame system I was happy with. I love the look of scroll frames, Q-snaps are a little, well… plumber’s pipe in appearance, aren’t they?! So I have two cheapy scroll frames and also a very nice set of Lokscrolls from Artisan designs, which are great, but I can’t manage to get the tension I like, using these. So I Q-snap. Someday I will sell off the hardware I don’t want!

Here’s another:

Do you mark or hi-lite your patterns or can you follow them without any markings? Do you make copies to mark up, or do you mark originals?

Um… follow without markings? Ahahahahahahaha! Um… no. I can’t do that. I am a highlighter. I don’t like to mark the originals (I suppose I could trade them afterwards, but really, I’m just a collector, and I like my collection to be in good condition). So working copies are my thing, and whatever highlighter colour I have to hand. Once upon a time I marked up the copies with pencil, but on more than one occasion, stupidly stored the pencil-marked copy with the WIP and ended up with stubborn pencil marks on floss and fabric. So far, touch wood, I haven’t had any disastrous highlighter incidents. I think Finn knows what Mummy would do if he drew on my stitching :giggle:

Meep

The sound you hear is me emerging from under my mountain of notes and textbooks, to discover myself still stuck beneath mountains of boxes in the new house.

Yes, we’ve been here for 2 weeks and it looks frankly worse than it did on the day after we moved in. A lot of stuff has been unpacked, but a lot of boxes are only half unpacked, in the frantic search for this-that-or-the-other, which leaves us with M-E-S-S ๐Ÿ™ I’d like to say I’ll get on top of it soon, but health-wise, things are kind of difficult at the moment. I’m feeling really good for only a few hours in each day, and I’m trying to spend those playing with Finn, lest he nominate me for world’s worst mother:giggle: (And after I accidentally opened a door in his face the other day, believe me, I’m in the running. Poor kid :ouch: ).

I did finally get my redwork exchange piece finished and off in the mail, only a day late. I’m feeling somewhat anxious about the finishing of the piece. Not what it is, but what colour it is (hint: not red). The rules didn’t say the finishing should be red, but the other finishes I’ve seen already are all red. I just didn’t find a red fabric that worked for me, and what I chose does make the redwork stitching stand out. I just hope it is well received, because I like it ๐Ÿ™‚

Now on to doing my Christmas ornament exchange. Huge hugs to Cathy for the 2005 Just Cross Stitch Ornaments issue – I love a lot of the ornaments this year, so I’m going to try and settle on one from there to stitch.

Not much else in the works at the moment, due to the feeling-like-crap thing. Sleeping is high on my list of priorities, that’s for sure. Will try and be around a bit more often though… I’m missing blogging, and feel like I’ve dropped out of the community a little bit in the past weeks.

It’s Still October

In case you’re wondering where I’ve been, just remember this post. I’m just taking a breather while I try and survive the rest of October. Of course, it’s not helping that every time I do have a little bit of time online, I end up thoroughly irritated by some-little-thing-or-other. I just don’t want to blog about that stuff right now. I could blog about uni, but you don’t really need to hear about how dreadfully my exam prep is going, I assure you!

There are other things going on in my life at the moment, too. Good things, mostly. Things that deserve blogtime. The house… and other stuff. Which will come to light at the appropriate time, but not now. Right now, I just need to get through the next four days, and then… sleep and sleep and sleep. Oh, and stitch a little, too – I’m just going to be able to squeak my Redwork exchange into the mail on deadline day, I think.

‘Til I resurface, hope you’re all having fun ๐Ÿ™‚ And Laura… mondo congrats on the house-signing ๐Ÿ˜†

House Happiness

๐Ÿ™‚ ๐Ÿ™‚ ๐Ÿ™‚ ๐Ÿ™‚ ๐Ÿ™‚ ๐Ÿ™‚ ๐Ÿ™‚ ๐Ÿ™‚ ๐Ÿ™‚ ๐Ÿ™‚ ๐Ÿ™‚ ๐Ÿ™‚

That’s all for now… moving makes Mel tiiiiiiiiired!

I’m All Grown Up

Happy Birthday Me ๐Ÿ™‚

Finn decided I was in fact turning 88 :giggle: So sweet.

I feel that at 30, I should probably feel like an adult. Normally, no, but this week, with pressures from all directions, I think I do. Reached my goal of no grey hairs though!

Because of said pressures, there will be no big celebrations. I’m not a big one for parties even on a good year, but this year it’s just impossible to stop and breathe, let alone party. I’ll be spending this evening writing sql and php, and if I get a chance, a Usability report. Joy :yuk:

However – once the next few weeks are a mere memory, I plan to sit down with my brand new Will & Grace DVDs (Seasons 1 & 2)… and STITCH! That will be sweeeet ๐Ÿ˜†

PS. I decided I was not allowed to be miserable and stressed on my birthday (well, not all day anyway), so Finn and I trundled up the street for coffee and cake. Orange flourless cake, to be precise. Ooooh. My body, having become accustomed to high protein, low fat over the last 3 months, has a little bit to say about that kind of abuse. But heck, it was worth it! Now… I hope Mum doesn’t decide to bring cake over later :giggle:

And The Bell Tolls

Yes it does. It tolls for my former life as a scientist. Gone. All gone ๐Ÿ™

Really, I wasn’t a scientist in the true sense of the word. In this country anyway. In this country, to call yourself a scientist you need a PhD, and usually som time under the PostDoc umbrella. My actual title for five years was Research Assistant – aka “one who does all the work but gets none of the credit” ๐Ÿ˜† Actually, in terms of giving credit, my boss was quite reasonable. He gave his RAs responsibility for their own projects, and I even have authorship (not primary, alas) on a few papers. So with those, and a published Abstract and conference poster from my year-long Honours project, I felt like I could call myself a scientist… at least to those who wouldn’t know any better!

I left it behind, though, for something which gives me a lot more potential to enjoy myself. I had no intention of ever doing a PhD, and without that, there’s nowhere much else to go – sideways, from academia into industry, would’ve been the most attractive option. My little sister took that option. I completely backtracked and started studying again, in a whole different area. As difficult as it has been, studying while raising a baby, I really am loving web programming. Perhaps one day I might actually feel like working for a living again!

But back to that bell tolling. For a long, looong time, all of my lecture notes and other stuff from uni (the first degree) has been in storage. Probably 5 or 6 years. I’ve obviously never had a need to refer to it, but something kept me from throwing it out. Tonight was the night though. Not enough storage space at our new place, so there are now two boxes worth of papers waiting out front to be picked up by the recycling truck ๐Ÿ™ I had to let OtherHalf throw most of it in the bin while I turned away. I know it’s sheer craziness, but it feels like a whole lot of my previous life just got erased.

Oh well… moving right along…

Secrets & SBQ

I happy danced today, for the first time in a while. (Actually, I prematurely danced for this piece two days ago on the Rotation BB, but I had some finishing touches to apply.) I’m also very, very close to another HD. Unfortunately, I can’t share either one with you ๐Ÿ™ So you’ll probably think I’m making it up or something, and that I don’t really actually ever stitch. Not true, not true!

The piece I finished today was a lot of fun to stitch, and very quick. I’d forgotten how much fun little stuff can be. Next year will be the year I finally start a rotation, and I’m definitely including small projects amongst my favoured ginormous ones ๐Ÿ™‚

Which brings us to this week’s SBQ:

When you have almost finished a pattern and start thinking about the next one to stitch, how do you select it? (a list, most recent purchase, etc.)

When I’m stitching anything, I always seem to be wanting to stitch something else. This is why a rotation so far hasn’t really worked for me – I’m a screamer! Also, because I mostly stitch large projects, it seems I never finish anything. So while I probably should move on to an existing WIP when I finally have a finish, I usually don’t. I usually like to reward myself with a new start, because there’s nothing in the world like a new start!

My one bit of discipline is I don’t let myself start something similar to a current WIP. So if I already have a large TW, a large Mirabilia, a large Patricia Allison, and a large whatever else design on the go, I won’t let myself start another something large from those designers until I finish the one I’m working on. So lately, if I have a finish, I’ve been looking to start something smallish from my kitted up stash. While I don’t have an enormous backlog of fully kitted projects, I do have a nice selection, and I’ve got a few smaller projects waiting in the wings.

Ultimately though, what dictates what I start is a wallow in my stash. I love that – I go and put away whatever I’ve used for that finished project, and play in all my stuff for a while, and something usually jumps out and shouts “stitch ME” :giggle: Often I want to start something I’ve been given – if purely to prove to the giver that yes, I do actually want to stitch what you gave me ๐Ÿ˜† I have a few charts in that category right now, and I of course want to start them all, right now!

Le sigh.

Wish I was stitching…

Signed, Sealed…

…Not yet delivered! Loan documents finally arrived (again) yesterday, and like the title tells it, we have now signed our life away. They’ll be back in the post tomorrow, and we can begin the countdown to the new house (like I haven’t been counting down since we signed the offer!)

On a totally unrelated note… we have spiders everywhere at the moment. Ev.Ry.Where! These are a particularly innocuous little spider, and they are mostly outside (have found a few who wandered indoors though). Mostly in our hedge… apparently breeding there, I guess. They’re kind of cute – I reserve my meagre allotment of arachnophobia for whitetails only. I don’t even kill redbacks on the rare occasion that I come across them – they leave me alone as long as I leave them alone. But whitetails encroach on my personal space – they come into my house without wiping their feet, take up residence in some pile of stuff (study notes, laundry…), and jump me when I try and dismantle said pile. I hate them, I hate them, I hate them.

But these. These are cute. If I could be bothered, I’d find out what they are. But I can’t be.

Countdown begins in 3 minutes…